I know how hard it is- I have been there! My son is allergic to peanuts and tree nuts. He has since had oral immunotherapy- but I spent years trying to keep him safe, and also trying to let him be like any other kid. Birthday parties, cookouts, and eating out were the hardest!!
I have put together over 30 recipes for you that are nut-free, that the whole family can enjoy. They are also made with good-for-you ingredients. One thing I learned with my son's allergy was there was an awful lot of junk in packaged foods (reading through those labels was scary!) I like being able to control the ingredients by baking my own treats.